3 years at Uni life past so fast that I don’t even notice. Really miss all of them …. There’s so much memory beneath it. There are sweet and sad memory thou. Sweet memory makes a person feel happy while sad memory make a person grow.
p/s:- for those who always sot with me all the way through the UNI life, pls do update me anytime ya… Miss you all
Start working means end of enjoy time… huhu!!! Everyday just busy with work and work and work… Sometimes feel like no life at all… All alone at a stranger place (partially yes). Hopefully, life will be better after this… Walau eh, haven’t start working already learn how to spend… hehe 
10 steps to enjoying each other better…
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don’t try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let’s face it, guys-there’s only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u’re gonna have
to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don’t make assumptions about each other’s feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u’re angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it’s the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do t hings together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u’re spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it’s a warning sign that u’re drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn’t kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy… There’s gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5. Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It’s wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine’s Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can’t wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him…..so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other’s feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don’t bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don’t talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b’cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru’ spells of insecurity at the beginning of the
relationship, but don’t translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u’re
gonna go through ur partner’s mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru’ the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and
breaking promises, u need to talk! If u’re in a relationship, make ur
partner ur priority and don’t disappoint them if u can help it. It’s really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don’t make promises u can’t keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing < EM>ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u’re hurt, say so, and when u’re angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can’t be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with?? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn’t worth it!
dy Become volunteer is something dat I always want to do but just dat i can’t able to find the proper source of it. Time flies for years and ended up, I get a msg from someone dat can get me into it. I’m attending The Asia Pacific Internationatinal Honesty Enterprise - Keris Award to be helper. This event last for one day on Saturday. This is the first time I’m attending such a grand event and the feeling is really different. Is so amazing in the sense. Sounds like "Katak Bawah Tempurung" haha… Is really a good experience to me… but my leg pain terribly… huhu… Standing for the whole day. At there, I saw one lady and she’s one of the winner. She’s really look so pretty, arrogant, nice, and awesome… How I wish I can be like her one day… Haha!!! let me day dreaming first (*_*) hehe… There’s happy and sad things happen there… but no matter how… at last… is a good experience thou. (",)
P/s: Thanks Yen Yoon for giving me this chances… You teach me a lot and make me understand a lot. To "someone’, thanks for your encouragement. 
One fine day, I went shopping with my sister. When we reach the entrance of the Giant supermarket, we saw a little boy age 2 standing there seem so blur. At that moment, my sister and I thought that the kid has lost his mummy. So, we just try to figure out wat to do. The kids run to me and ask me " where am I going? ". He keep repeating the same word although i ask him so many time " where is your mummy? ". After a while only I notice, his mummy is one of the sales person there and looking at the kid action all the while. We are just like ^_^"" … really swt that time. He then pull us to his table where got toys there and we both sister ended up playing with the kids as he just don let us go. Wat a funny day… However, the kids is really adorable thou BUT… very naughty loh… ("be tahan" him)…
Wat is the nature of truth?
… How to measure it? …
Wat is the nature of trust?
… How to knew it? …
Wat is the safest place?
… How to sense it? …
Life seems to be unpredictable, but why?
What is happiness?
What is success?
What is suffering?
What is life really for?
Things come and go each and every moment.
Can we stop the things from changing?
How much each and everyone accept the nature of life ………………………………………….
Outing to Alokarama take me lots of courage. I can’t find anyone to accompany as lots of them are going back home this weekend. No matter how, I landed at Alokarama land on 11 Jan thanks to K2. Things just become much better when i met Sis Ju Vian, Sis Valerie, Bro Chen How, and Bro Purna. Somehow, i’m glad to meet them there. They are really kind, friendly and nice person.
The environment at Alokarama is really amazing. The place is so peaceful and wonderful. The air is so fresh and I feel so close to the green environment. One word able to describe it, dat is "wow". I met Sister Sumangala on the day it is and something amazing happen. I realize the smile and peacefulness on her face. She teach me a lot and I believe her teaching will always stay in my heart now and forever. The next morning, I met Bhante and his talk inspire me a lot. I still remember that Bhante did ask who wish to become monk and nun; at that moment something flash over to my mind and… haha… gotcha!!!
On the last day, something more funny happen. There’s few group of people there and there’s one group call green thumb. After our morning talk, i just dissapear from the dining hall and stay with the green thumb groups. There’s one uncle there and I began to ask lots of questions esp on herbs and sickness. When he began to look on my palm, that how all began and I feel omg… is just like "suan ming" and… ended i take few prescription from him about some sickness. He just keep repeating "I did tell u all abt this" and, I keep on explaining "I’m from youth group not green thumb" and he’ll say "Nvm" and the things cont on and on. haha… This is the first time i saw a stupa and able to step on it’s land. The feeling is so amazing that i can’t able to describe with words. I still miss the place so much. On the day when we wanna leave Alokarama, I really want to walk up to the stupa again but… there are people doing renovation and the sun is burning.
Thanks a lot for Ju Vian, Meng Hong and Chen How for always help me and wait for me as i’m always the most "turtle" one… To someone.. erm… thanks for giving me the opportunity to be there. I really appreciate the kindness and patient u have.
Sadhu .. Sadhu.. Sadhu
When u saw a cat, its a cat with its norm…
When u saw a mouse, its a mouse with its norm…
BUT>>>
When u know a friend, is’t a friend or…………
no matter how… appreciate people around you !!!
don miss it after u loss it!!!
When u small, life is so wonderful and nice = ENJOY . . .
When u grown, life will be much more complicated BUT more challenging = ENJOY . . .
When u old, life will feel so tired but is pass liao = ENJOY . . .
When u die, how much u appreciate the life b4 this = (THIS I DUNNO ENJOY or ENJOY : u decide). . .
THEN… .. . . . . cont… did you hear baby cry ?????
hehe…. here u are; again enjoying ur life…
NOW HOW YOU FEEL…. MUST ENJOY YOUR LIFE YA!!! APPRECIATE EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE ,,,…………..
One afternoon, a wealthy lawyer was riding in the back of his limousine when he saw two men eating grass by the road side. He ordered his driver to stop, and he got out to investigate. "Why are you eating grass?" he asked one man. "We don’t have any money for food," the poor man replied "We’ve been unable to eat for five days and my family is starving". "Oh, well, you can come with me to my house," instructed the lawyer. "But, sir, I have a wife and two children with me!" "Bring them along!" replied the lawyer. "He turned to the other man and said: "You come with us, too." "But I have a wife and six children," the second man answered. "Bring them as well" replied the lawyer. They all climbed into the car, which was no easy task, even for a car as large as the limousine. Once underway, one of the poor fellows said: "Sir, you are much too
kind. Thank you for taking all of us with you." The lawyer replied: "Glad to do it, my friend. You’ll love my place;
the grass is almost a foot tall."
